Tarbiyat

Assalamualikum ,Doston ..
Masail jo har ghar mein hote hai aur Ho rahe hai.Miya biwi aur waldein kitne armano se ek larke ke waledein uski shaadi karte hai uski nayi zindagi ko sawarne mein koi kasar nahi chorte,Bahu laane mein kisi bhi tarah ki kami ko pasand nahi karte,surat khubsurat ho ,bete ki liye biwi aisi laane ka sochte hai jo ki aisi ho ki dekhne wale taarif hi karte rahe .Aur jab shaadi ho jaati hai wahi larki jislke liye unhone kisi tarah ki kami nai ki ,Wahi bahu jisey dhundhne mein itna waqt laga dya ,aaj wahi acchi nahi lagti ,uski adatein pasand nahi ,jo log taarif kar rahe they aaj woh taarif bhi pasand nahi ,balki idhar udhar baatein karke aaj wahi saans uski taarif nahi sunna chahti ..Akhir kyun itni jyada umeedein ..aap hi to lekar aaye they ,apki hi pasand hai to ab kya ?Aisa kya hua aapki pasand jo ab na pasand ho gayi hai ,darasal us naye mehmaan ki galti nahi ,galti hai samajh ki jab shaadi hoti hai to larki ko bhi samjhna zaruri hai ki woh jahan aayi woh ab uska hi asal ghar hai,jo uske khawind ke waldein hai woh ab uske bhi hai ,aur larke ko bhi yeh samjhna zaruri hai ki maa aur biwi dono ko barabar suney aur unki zarurat ko samjhe,ek tarfa jhukaao zindagi ko jhuka kar aur hila kar rakh deta hai ,Baat yeh nahi ki larki ki hi tarbiyat acchi ho ,baat yeh hai ki larka aur larki dono ki tarbiyat acchi ho ,kabhi kabhi larka apni ammi ki tarafdaari karne lag jaata hai , kabhi kabhi woh biwi ki taraf ,To baat yeh samjh aayi ki pehle ek aurat ko apne bete ko acchi tarbiyat dena zaruri hai phir wahi larke ko hi do logo ki samajh ko samjhna hoga ,Naahi woh itna magan ho ki apni ammi ko nazar andaaz kar de ,aur naahi woh bewakoof ho ki apni biwi ko har galti ka haqdaar baatae .kirdaar teen hai lekin soch ko ek karne mein larke aur larki dono ka bahut ahem hissa hai aap mane ya na maane ,ek larke ko biwi ke saath aur maa ke sath kaisa sulook kya jata hai woh ek aurat ki tarbiyat se seekhta hai aur jab bada hokar uski tarbiyat ki aazmaish hoti hai to uska farz hai ki jo usne seekha hai woh us par amal kare .Barabar se dono ke huqooq ko samjhe !! Ilsiye sirf ek ko hi is rishte ke naakam hone ka haqdaar banana galat hoga .Isliye zaruri hai ki Quran ki aur hadees ki roshni mein aurat aur mard ke Huqooq samjhe aur samjhaye taaki jo rishta sabse paak hai usmein galat fahmi ki jagh na ho !!waqt de khud ko aur saliqa seekhe zindagi ke falsafe ko samjhne ka rasoolo aur sahabiyon ki zindagi par baat kare ,apne baccho ko beech is tarah se ek dayra banaye ki woh is dayre ko musibat aur bandish nahi balki apni hifazat samjhe ...

THE CREATION OF HUMAN BEINGS FROM WATER

Allah created every [living] creature from water. Some of them go on their bellies, some of them on two legs, and some on four. Allah creates whatever He wills. Allah has power over all things. (Qur'an, 24:45)

Do those who disbelieve not see that the heavens and the Earth were sewn together and then We unstitched them and that We made from water every living thing? So won't they believe? (Qur'an, 21:30)

And it is He Who created human beings from water and then gave them relations by blood and marriage. Your Lord is All-Powerful. (Qur'an, 25:54)

When we look at the verses concerned with the creation of human beings and living things, we clearly see evidence of a miracle. One such miracle is of the creation of living things from water. It was only possible for people to come by that information, clearly expressed in those verses, hundreds of years afterwards with the invention of the microscope. The words "Water is the main component of organic matter. 50-90% of the weight of living things consists of water" appear regularly in encyclopaedias. Furthermore, 80% of the cytoplasm (basic cell material) of a standard animal cell is described as water in biology textbooks. The analysis of cytoplasm and its appearance in textbooks took place hundreds of years after the revelation of the Qur'an. It is therefore impossible for this fact, now accepted by the scientific community, to have been known at the time the Qur'an was revealed. Yet, attention was drawn to it in the Qur'an 1,400 years before its discovery.

CREATION FROM CLAY In the Qur'an, Allah reveals that the creation of the human is a miracle. The first human being was created by Allah shaping clay into human form and breathing a soul into it:

Your Lord said to the angels, "I am going to create a human being out of clay. When I have formed him and breathed My Spirit into him, fall down in prostration to him!" (Qur'an, 38:71-72)

Then inquire of them: Is it they who are stronger in structure or other things We have created? We created them from sticky clay. (Qur'an, 37:11)

When the human body is examined today, it may be discovered that many elements present on the earth are also to be found in the body. Living tissues contain 95% carbon, hydrogen, oxygen, nitrogen, phosphorus and sulphur, with a total of 26 different elements.95 In another verse of the Qur'an we are told:

We created man from an extract of clay. (Qur'an, 23:12)

The Arabic word "sulaalah," translated as "extract" in the verse, means "representative example, essence." As we have seen, the information revealed in the Qur'an 1,400 years ago confirms what modern science tells us-the fact that the same elements are employed in human creation as those found in t

Islam saying

“Among the Muslims most perfect, as regards his faith, is one whose character is excellent, and the best among you are those who treat their wives well.” Reported by Abu Hurairah [Tirmidhi 278]

Tattoos Haram in Islam

it was narrated that Abu Juhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) cursed the one who does tattoos, the one who has a tattoo done, the one who consumes riba (usury or interest) and the one who pays it, and he forbade the price of a dog and the earnings of a prostitute, and he cursed the image-makers.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5032).
So having tattoos done and tattooing is a major sin. The reason for it being haram has not been given but some scholars believe that it may be because it is changing the creation of Allah.

The curse is not permanent but it is lifted when a person sincerely repents to Allah for this mistake. So one should not feel doomed because they committed this mistake when they were in days of Jahilia (ignorance).

As for things which are not permanent such as henna painting on women's hands , feet and so on, they are not regarded as tattoos and are allowed in Islam.

Many times I received e-mails from non Muslims wishing to become Muslim and from New Muslims who had tattoos done when they were not Muslim. A person can become a Muslim even if they have had tattoos done to them or if they were involved in tattooing. You can do not have to remove them in order to become a Muslim. You can pray, do wudhu and do all your Islamic duties even if you have tattoos. This is because Islam erases all sins that a non Muslim committed before he or she became a Muslim.

Allah says

“Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds; for those, Allah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful”

[al-Furqaan 25:70]

List of surah in "QURAN "

A List of the Names of the Surah (Chapters) of the Holy Quran: Al-Fatihah (The Opening)
Al-Baqarah (The Cow)

Al-'Imran (The Family of Amran)

An-Nisa' (The Women)
Al-Ma'idah (The Food)
Al-An'am (The Cattle)
Al-A'raf (The Elevated Places)
Al-Anfal (Voluntary Gifts)
Al-Bara'at / At-Taubah(The Immunity)
Yunus (Jonah)
Hud (Hud)
Yusuf (Joseph)
Ar-Ra'd (The Thunder)
Ibrahim (Abraham)
Al-Hijr (The Rock)
An-Nahl (The Bee)
Bani Isra'il (The Israelites)
Al-Kahf (The Cave)
Maryam (Mary)
Ta Ha (Ta Ha)
Al-Anbiya' (The Prophets)
Al-Hajj (The Pilgrimage)
Al-Mu'minun (The Believers)
An-Nur (The Light)
Al-Furqan (The Discrimination)
Ash-Shu'ara' (The Poets)
An-Naml (The Naml)
Al-Qasas (The Narrative)
Al-'Ankabut (The Spider)
Ar-Rum (The Romans)
Luqman (Luqman)
As-Sajdah (The Adoration)
Al-Ahzab (The Allies)
Al-Saba' (The Saba')
Al-Fatir (The Originator)
Ya Sin (Ya Sin)
As-Saffat (Those Ranging in Ranks)
Sad (Sad)
Az-Zumar (The Companies)
Al-Mu'min (The Believer)
Ha Mim (Ha Mim)
Ash-Shura (Counsel)
Az-Zukhruf (Gold)
Ad-Dukhan (The Drought)
Al-Jathiyah (The Kneeling)
Al-Ahqaf (The Sandhills)
Muhammad (Muhammad)
Al-Fath (The Victory)
Al-Hujurat (The Apartments)
Qaf (Qaf)
Ad-Dhariyat (The Scatterers)
At-Tur (The Mountain)
An-Najm (The Star)
Al-Qamar (The Moon)
Ar-Rahman (The Beneficent)
Al-Waqi'ah (The Event)
Al-Hadid (Iron)
Al-Mujadilah (The Pleading Woman)
Al-Hashr (The Banishment)
Al-Mumtahanah (The Woman who is Examined)
As-Saff (The Ranks)
Al-Jumu'ah (The Congregation)
Al-Munafiqun (The Hypocrites)
At-Taghabun (The Manifestation of Losses)
At-Talaq (Divorce)
At-Tahrim (The Prohibition)
Al-Mulk (The Kingdom)
Al-Qalam (The Pen)
Al-Haqqah (The Sure Truth)
Al-Ma'arij (The Ways of Ascent)
Nuh (Noah)
Al-Jinn (The Jinn)
Al-Muzzammil (The One Covering Himself)
Al-Muddaththir (The One Wrapping Himself Up)
Al-Qiyamah (The Resurrection)
Al-Insan (The Man)
Al-Mursalat (Those Sent Forth)
An-Naba' (The Announcement)
An-Nazi'at (Those Who Yearn)
'Abasa (He Frowned)
At-Takwir (The Folding Up)
Al-Infitar (The Cleaving)
At-Tatfif (Default in Duty)
Al-Inshiqaq (The Bursting Asunder)
Al-Buruj (The Stars)
At-Tariq (The Comer by Night)
Al-A'la (The Most High)
Al-Ghashiyah (The Overwhelming Event)
Al-Fajr (The Daybreak)
Al-Balad (The City)
Ash-Shams (The Sun)
Al-Lail (The Night)
Ad-Duha (The Brightness of the Day)
Al-Inshirah (The Expansion)
At-Tin (The Fig)
Al-'Alaq (The Clot)
Al-Qadr (The Majesty)
Al-Bayyinah (The Clear Evidence)
Al-Zilzal (The Shaking)
Al-'Adiyat (The Assaulters)
Al-Qari'ah (The Calamity)
At-Takathur (The Abundance of Wealth)
Al-'Asr (The Time)
Al-Humazah (The Slanderer)
Al-Fil (The Elephant)
Al-Quraish (The Quraish)
Al-Ma'un (Acts of Kindness)
Al-Kauthar (The Abundance of Good)
Al-Kafirun (The Disbelievers)
An-Nasr (The Help)
Al-Lahab (The Flame)
Al-Ikhlas (The Unity)
Al-Falaq (The Dawn)
An-Nas (The Men)